What is a Certified Sexuality Coach?
A Certified Sexologist or Sexuality Coach is a professionally trained and formally educated person who assists individuals (and couples) with their personal, sexual, intimacy, and relationship needs. Sexologists address areas such as sexless marriages, unhappy relationships, self-hate/sabotage, and more. We also guide our clients to fully grasp their sexual potential through education, training, and communication. Unlike therapists, we do not dig into and focus on past issues, Sexuality Coaches focus on your current and future goals.
Why Would You Want a Sexuality Coach?
Have you experienced or know the definition of GREAT sex? Notice I said GREAT right? Just because you have had a lot of sex, and even orgasmed a few times, does not necessarily mean that you have had GREAT sex. Would you like to experience mind-blowing sex? (mind-blowing is what I mean by GREAT btw) I mean the kind that has you in tears of joy, confusion, and comfort when it’s all said and done. Well that all starts with you! Sex starts in the mind and the body, usually, happily follows. Meaning, get your mind "right"! Focus on you before relying on another to give you the pleasure you desire.
Let me be the first to tell you, You Are Not alone. If you did a little research, you would find that there is a large population of non-orgasmic sex happening in this world and that is where a Sexuality Coach comes into play. Just like sports, life, and financial coaches, our job is to help you improve a particular aspect of your life. Everyone could benefit from having a boost in the intimacy realm of their relationship. Wouldn’t you agree? This could not be any truer than for the single mother who barely has time to help the child(ren) with homework, the married couple who are years in and are now like two ships passing in the night or the introvert who’s ready to explore however not sure where to start.
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Billions of people have consensual sex EVERY DAY, yet it is still such a taboo to talk about or heaven forbid do anything beyond doggy style or missionary! Coach Kay is the listening ear and guiding light for you to share, learn and start exploring. My focus is listening to your goals, providing solutions to your obstacles, and creating a plan that would allow you to freely explore your ultimate intimacy, personal and relationship desires. As a married mother of five, I am fully aware of what a healthy and fulfilling sex life looks and feels like. I also know what can happen IF you allow yourself to become complacent with not seeking mind-blowing…well, you know what I mean.
Being a multi-business owning entrepreneur married to another business owner with 3.5 of the 5 children home, it can become challenging to keep the spark. But you best believe, I keep two rocks in my pocket! How easy is it for you to get caught up in your everyday life of cooking, cleaning, caring for others, working, etc., to the point that you forget about yourself? Self-care is extremely important and having a healthy sex life is included in that self-care realm! In fact, taking care of yourself is about the only way you WILL have a healthy intimate relationship at all!
As your Sexuality Coach, I am dedicating myself to guiding you (and your partner) on a new journey that starts with YOU! This will be done by providing life-altering, long lasting tools, tips and resources. Through purposeful coaching, I will set you (and your partner) on a path of the sexual and intimacy freedom of your desires. Check out these common reasons people fall into a sexual rut.
Common Causes of “Dull” Sex & Intimacy
- Anxiety
- Stress
- Infidelity
- Religion/tradition
- Pregnancy/childbirth
- Low self-confidence/self-worth
- Career climb or slump
- *Medical (always seek medical professional help in this case)
- No physical attraction
- Poor communication
- Fear
…and more
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Who Is A Candidate for Sexuality Coaching?
Did you notice above I asked, “Why Would you Want a Sexuality Coach”? I purposely did not use the term Need because, just like lubrication after the first use, having a Sexuality Coach becomes a want versus a need. Why you ask? Well, women have amazing bodies and can produce its own natural lubrication but when you add just a small drop of an intimate lube, the slide is so much better. That is the same concept with adding a Sexuality Coach. You may be trudging along in life, “dealing” with yourself and your relationship not knowing that you could slide a little smoother by adding some of Coach Kay’s tools to your toolbox. You may be a candidate for sexuality coaching if….
- You find that only your ex's pleasured you and who you're with now does not
- You are pretending to be sick or sleep to avoid sex and intimacy
- There has been infidelity that hasn't been "dealt" with
- You get through sex by sending your mind elsewhere
- You are unhappy internally and unsure why
- You are fearful of expressing your sexual desires
- You have hit a sexual plateau
- You are in a new relationship that is totally sexless
- Your sexual desire is not what it "used" to be
And this list could go on, so let us discuss a plan and options that are right for you!
What Can You Expect?
There are a couple things that you should expect based on the options/package that you choose. If you are on the fence about obtaining a Certified Sexologist, you can choose to schedule a complimentary discovery call. During your complimentary discovery call, you will complete a brief questionnaire which will give me a general idea of your wants, needs and desires. During your discovery call we will narrow down where you would best benefit guidance in and discuss an overall plan for how we would tackle it. For all other selected packages, you would complete a full initial assessment and during your first session we will map out a planned course of action. Throughout your coaching journey you will receive valuable information and “homework” that will give you new perspective on ways you are currently navigating life. Each session is designed to add new love and intimacy tools to your toolbox!
Each session will be scheduled using an electronic scheduling program and will be executed using Zoom teleconferencing platform. This way I can be your guide anywhere in the world you have internet access. You can also choose to come into the office for your session. If neither method works for you, ask me about alternative methods of attending your session.
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